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Don’t Let Your Eyes Be Bigger Than Your Child’s Stomach
[ Post by Lisa Tedder ][ Post on May 15, 2012 ][ In For new Mom's ]
One problem many parents have is worrying that their child isn’t eating enough. These parents then make the mistake of forcing food on the child or offering all kinds of food in an attempt to get him to eat.
Relax. I don’t think are any cases on record of a child starving himself. First time parents often overestimate the amount of food the child should eat. Keep in mind that a toddler’s stomach is roughly the same size as their fist; pretty small isn’t it? The following chart should help in determining how much your child needs but remember, each child is different and may need more or less food. They may also eat more during a growth spurt, then slow down again. A sick child may not feel like eating. Don’t stress if your child doesn’t get every serving on the chart each day.
A one year old child needs:
6 servings of whole grains (1 serving = 1/4 slice of bread, 1/4 cup of cereal, 1/4 muffin or 2 crackers)
5 servings of fruits and vegetables (1 serving = 1/4 cup chopped fruit or vegetable, raw or cooked)
3 servings of milk, yogurt or cheese (1 serving = 1/2 cup milk or yogurt, 1/2 oz. of cheese)
2 servings of protein (1 serving = 1 egg, 1 Tbsp. chopped fish, meat or chicken)
Toddlers are easily distracted and may be more interested in playing at meal time than eating. Try to keep a balance between establishing regular meal times but not allowing the child to simply play with his food and make a mess. Simply excuse the child from the table but do not offer treats later. Instead, give a nutritious snack and then offer regular food again at the next meal.
Toddlers are also interesting in being in control, especially as they grow older. If they refuse to eat the food offered, simply excuse them from the table but do not offer alternatives. The child will never learn to eat what is prepared if they learn they can manipulate the parents into giving them the same few foods over and over like macaroni and cheese. However, do try to have a few familiar foods on the plate. You can’t expect a child to eat everything if you decide to try cooking Chinese one night.
Keep meal times free from stress so everyone wants to sit down and enjoy the meal together. Don’t worry about a toddler’s manners too much; that will come later. A toddler’s job is to learn to eat different foods and to feed himself. Right from the start, make eating foods an adventure to enjoy, not a battle ground.
Upadated on May 15, 2012
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